Frequently Asked Questions
Welcome to The Black Pearl Club — a bold, sex-positive space centering on the pleasure, healing, and empowerment of Black women and femmes. If you’re curious, here’s everything you need to know:
🔥 What is The Black Pearl Club?
The Black Pearl Club is a private community dedicated to the sexual exploration, safety, and liberation of Black women and femme-identifying folks. We host curated experiences—from play parties to intimacy workshops—encouraging connection, confidence, and joy.
🌈 Who can join?
Membership is open to all but focused on Black and Brown women and femme-identifying people, inclusive of queer, trans, and nonbinary folks aligned with our values. Some events will be specific to Black and Brown women and femme-identifying people only; those will be clearly labeled.
💬 Is this just about sex?
No. We are proudly sex-positive but deeply rooted in healing, embodiment, sisterhood, and education. We create experiences for growth—whether that’s sensual yoga, boundaries workshops, or just being held in community.
🔒 Is it a safe space?
Yes. We prioritize consent, confidentiality, and community care above all else. Every member agrees to our code of conduct, and we actively foster a culture of safety, respect, and accountability.
✨ What kinds of events do you host?
Our events include:
Private play parties (consent-led and beginner-friendly)
Fireside chats with sexologists, therapists, and thought leaders
Sensual movement and journaling workshops
Retreats, curated group trips, and member-only virtual circles
💸 Is there a membership fee?
Yes. We offer tiered memberships to keep the space accessible while supporting the care and labor required to run a thriving community. Members receive exclusive content, event invites, and access to our private platform.
❓ Do I need experience to attend a play party?
Not at all. Our events are designed to be inclusive, safe, and welcoming, no matter where you are on your journey. We offer intros, orientations, and consent workshops for first-timers.
🌱 I'm curious but not ready—can I still join?
Absolutely. Many members join simply to learn, connect, or be in community. There’s no pressure to participate beyond your comfort.
📝 How do I join?
You can start by completing our short Membership Form. We’d love to learn about you and how we can support your journey.